Zikuoneka kuti anthu anzeru amati mkazi akamakula amayamba kufuna kugonana monga mmene mwamuna aliyense amafunira poyamba. Sizikudziwika kuti ndani amene amamukonda komanso yemwe amasangalala kwambiri ndi njirayi - mnyamata wamng'ono kapena akazi okhwima.
Atasewera ndikusewera, mtsikanayo adadzitengera yekha zinthu ndikumunyengerera mnyamatayo. Anagwira ntchito yowombera bwino ndikuyika chishalo munthu wadazi.